What Do People Read in Your Life Book

We have all heard the expression, You never get a second chance to make a first impression.  Well it is true, and you never know when or where they might be watching you.  We tend to think of when we go in for an interview, or when teaching a class, or giving a speech.  The truth is the ‘BOOK of YOU’ that they read everyday is the most read and making the most difference… positive or negative.  Think about you…

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Here is what happened to me last week…

 

 

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‘Til Next Time –

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Go Out Make it a Great Week – ‘Cause it is Your Choice!

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Delinda

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Always Another Way

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What do you think about this picture?  Do you agree that there IS aways a way?  What is interesting is that our answer to that question shows a lot about how we think and live our life.  

 

For instance –

  • When you hit the wall – what do you do?

    Just stay there and say ‘Poor Me’, life just doesn’t go my way, and start beating up on yourself?

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    Do you reach out and ask for help, maybe you look for a mentor or a coach? Look for a new idea?

  • When someone says ‘No’ – How do you react?

    Do you just accept it and feel like it’s your fault?

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    Do you re-examine and see how you can be more clear, or re-phrase to have a better understanding, or move on to the ‘Next’?

  • When your child needs help – What do you do?

    Just answer and ‘fix’ their problem,

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    Do you help them see ways to fix it themselves?  Do you help them think through the problem and teach them the skills for answering their own questions?

  • When you want a different job – What do you do?

    Whine and complain and accept where you are?

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    Do you look for ways to do your job better, ways to improve your skills to become more valuable in the marketplace?  Do you keep searching ’til the job you desire becomes available, all the while doing your best in your current job?

  • When a promotion was denied, what do you do? Complain, get mad, and talk badly about your ‘boss’?

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    Ask ‘Why’ and then rather than being argumentative and hurt, take the information and start changing the things you need to change, i.e. learn better skills, reach out to someone who can help you improve? Become so good at your job that there is no way they can deny you the next time, by putting in more effort?

 

Good questions, right?  How we choose to handle these type of issues really determines where we are in our life and where we are going.

 

There is always another way, another answer, another approach. Try it on a small area in your life and see if this is true for you. It can give you new freedom and less frustration in your life. I’d like to hear your stories.

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Need some help?  Sometimes you just new ideas, so if you are having a hard time seeing another answer, way, or option – Ask me . . . I’d love to help you find the other ‘Options’.

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Go make it a great day!

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Delinda

Question:  Do you find it hard or easy to find ‘another way’?

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When You Choose to Reach Out & Ask…

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Have you ever felt frustrated or Stuck?  Maybe stuck in your job, a relationship, or just life in general?  Most of us have at some point or another, I certainly have.  It seems things will move along pretty well, then Stop. Do you know what I mean?

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What I’ve found is each time it happens I need to Reach Out and Ask. Sometimes it isn’t fun to ask for help or advice, and you really have to be careful WHO you ask, but if you don’t do something – you stay stuck!

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When Stuck – 

  • Look for someone who is where you want to be. (When I was in Mary Kay, and I was ready for the next step into Cadillac I hung around the Cadillac Directors, helped them set up their rooms for meetings, listening and learning so I would be ready for the next step. I wanted to be where they were.)

  • Ask that person out for a cup of coffee or lunch – you pay and ‘pick their brain’. (Most people love to share their journey and how they did it. Your job – LISTEN)

  • You may want to look for a coach – someone who has ‘Been there-Done that’ (Find the right one for you. They can give you the roadmap and help you see your next step)

  • Be open to new ideas

  • Be ready to grab a hold and ready to Move

  • Be flexible and teachable

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There is always a way, another option, a different choice.  If you’re Stuck… Reach Out & Ask!

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‘Til next time – Keep in mind

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Destiny is not  matter of Chance – It’s a Matter of Choice! Choose wisely and go out and make it a great day! 

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Delinda

Question:  Is there an area in your life where you feel Stuck?  

Who can you reach out to?

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What are You Saying to Yourself?

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Our words are powerful!  Both the words we say to each other and the words we say to ourselves.  Listen to yourself, your silent and your out loud thoughts.

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What you think about you bring about.

As a man thinks in his heart, so he is. Ps 27:3 NKJV

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Have you ever stepped into your closet ladies and said something like this:  Oh I am so fat, nothing looks good on me, or had an issue at work and either said aloud or in your head, I’m so stupid, or I never do anything right. YIKES!  STOP!

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Negative Words

DELETE those thoughts. You are a beautiful child of the Most High God! Believe that first and then begin making some word changes.  Change how you talk about yourself and to yourself.

Here are a few positive words to THINK and SAY out loud – it can change your life.

  • I am a special and unique created for great things.

  • I am getting better everyday.

  • I am bold and courageous and with God’s help I can tackle any problem

  • I am a problem solver and look at every obstacle as a way to grow and learn.

 

There are many more.  

The one negative phrase I have said to myself millions of times through the years (and I am not exaggerating) is I can’t remember names.  However, that is my past and I am changing my self talk. I can remember names of people I meet because I enjoy meeting new people and they are important to me.  Now it is important to say it a lot and add a few other lines to it so it is even more powerful. 

What words do you say to yourself?  Write them down, and if those words are negative, cross them out, and write a positive way to talk to yourself.

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YOU ARE beautiful, creative, special, unique, precious, loved unconditionally, have a purpose, and created for greatness!  Shall I go on?  Now it’s your turn.

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I am __________________________

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‘Til next time – 

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BLESSINGS! Go out and make it a great day!

Delinda

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