FEARLESS FRIDAY

I’m calling today – FEARLESS FRIDAY.  

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Being fearless doesn’t mean never having fear, it’s about what do we do with the fear.  We each have fears.  It could be fear of failure or fear of success (Yes there is that fear also).

 

A big one that I see all the time is the fear of not being Enough – 

  • good enough

  • smart enough

  • have enough

  • do enough

  • have enough money for today

  • have enough money for the future

  • afraid of the economy

  • afraid they aren’t perfect

  • afraid they don’t measure up.

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YIKES!  That is a lot of Fear. We can’t handle all of that right now in this short time, so today, release one fear.

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How about stop being afraid that you aren’t perfect . . . that is the easiest one.  Really, I’m not kidding.  Perfection is an illusion, and we can spend so much of our time trying to be perfect that we miss out on living. It is a mental release. How about thinking “I’m going to do my best and then move on”, then congratulate yourself.

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Today enjoy each moment, do what you need to do.  I’m not saying to not do your best, just it doesn’t have to be perfect. Take the pressure off.

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Basically just do it, finish it, and move on.  You don’t need to tweak it to death (and Yes that one is for me, I can tweak forever).  

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Whatever you are going to do this weekend, just do it, cook it, watch it, sew it, bake it, wash it… whatever… and realize that the doing is better than it having to be perfect.

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You have permission to Not be perfect.  SMILE!

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Something to think about.

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Go Out Make it a Great Week – It is Your Choice!

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Delinda

ALSO-

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You asked for it…

Yes! Many of you have asked me for a print / Paperback version of  my book

FUN FEARLESS FEMALE

How to Live the Life You Want Instead of the  Life You’ve Got

So HERE it is!

You can click here for info about the book or you can go directly to Amazon and check it out. 

 

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SPEAK IT!

YOU ARE AMAZING!  Did you tell yourself that today?  Or… did you start your day feeling low, being critical and condemning yourself.  What are you speaking to yourself? Unfortunately, I believe that we do more of the criticizing than uplifting.

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Think about it.  You are unique… no one else has your fingerprint or DNA.  No one is exactly like you – AND that is a good thing… actually that is a great thing.

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When we can look at ourselves, the things that you do well, the ways you help others, or support your family, or excel at your job.  Take a moment and write down 3 great things about you. YES you do have 3 things… maybe you haven’t thought about it for a while.  

Recognize it, Believe it and Own!  YOU ARE AMAZING!  (If you need a little help seeing it in yourself… contact me and I can help you see it)

 

‘Til Next Time –

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Go Out Make it a Great Week – It is Your Choice!

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Delinda

ALSO-

You asked for it…

Yes! Many of you have asked me for a print/Paperback version of  my book

FUN FEARLESS FEMALE – How to Live the Life You Want Instead of the Life You’ve Got . . .

so HERE it is!

You can click here for info about the book or you can go directly to Amazon and check it out. 

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Send me a message – I’d love to hear from YOU!

702.510.1212

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What Do People Read in Your Life Book

We have all heard the expression, You never get a second chance to make a first impression.  Well it is true, and you never know when or where they might be watching you.  We tend to think of when we go in for an interview, or when teaching a class, or giving a speech.  The truth is the ‘BOOK of YOU’ that they read everyday is the most read and making the most difference… positive or negative.  Think about you…

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Here is what happened to me last week…

 

 

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‘Til Next Time –

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Go Out Make it a Great Week – ‘Cause it is Your Choice!

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Delinda

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Oh Shucks . . . Not Me

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YOU LOOK SO NICE TODAY . . .

What do you do when you get a compliment?  Think about it.  Do you say,

  • Oh shucks, that’s no big deal,

  • Oh this old thing,

  • I got it on sale at….,

  • Oh anybody can do that

  • No I’m not…

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I find that often women, more so than men, find it hard to accept a compliment and not only don’t accept it graciously but try to negate it.  Why is that?

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Let me just say that being self-deprecating is not attractive, not really being humble, and it’s rude. It is insulting to the person who gave the compliment and who said the kind words. We are indirectly saying, oh you don’t know anything, or that their opinion doesn’t matter. It is really bad behavior.

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The truth is in most cases it’s because you don’t feel good about yourself, you don’t feel worthy of the compliment, or it is your lack of confidence. Maybe you were told in your early years not too brag or not to draw attention to yourself. Possibly you were told your opinion or your choices don’t matter.

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That was me.  I was raised in the South, a girl (which had it’s own set of rules), a daughter of an officer in the Air force, AND we were went to the Southern Baptist church.  It was a very strict upbringing.

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Here’s what I heard:

  • Be seen and not heard

  • Only speak when spoken to

  • Be a good girl

Basically, don’t bring attention to yourself and downplay everything.

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You may have your own reasons for not feeling good about yourself, or being uncomfortable with compliments. Whatever the reasons we need to change it.

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Here is a really easy way to do it. It may take a little practice, but instead… try this.

THANK YOU!  Two easy words.  A SMILE and THANK YOU!

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  • You look so nice today – THANK YOU!

  • You did such a good job – THANK YOU

  • You are so talented – THANK YOU (STOP and don’t add… anyone can do it, oh it’s no big deal)

  • I love your dress – THANK YOU , (me too!)

  • You look so pretty – THANK YOU, (that is so sweet of you)

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My friend, YOU are an amazing person, with unique gifts and talents! You were created for greatness and to make a difference in this world!  Believe it, walk it and live it!

(Now say out loud – THANK YOU!)

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‘Til Next Time –

 

Life is Not a Matter of Chance – It’s a Matter of Choice.

Choose Wisely and Go Make it a Great Week!

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Delinda

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It’s Not Over ’til It’s Over

If you are reading this then you are still alive on this earth… And that means it’s Not too late! You  still have purpose and there is still time to do … whatever you want.

 

Often we set limits on ourselves by thinking we have to fit the mold – the right age, the right career, the right house…  The truth is the right time is now for You! Decide to go for it.  Decide to make your mark, start your business, share your life with someone.  As long as you are breathing – it’s Not Over!  It’s not over… ’til it’s over.

 

 

 

Go out and make it a great week! It is your choice!

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‘Til Next Time –

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Delinda

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